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January 16, 2009

Evolution of a Blogger

I forgot to mention that my weekly blog for the News & Observer's Triangle Mom2Mom site has now moved to Wednesdays. I'm excited about it because I think Wednesday probably gets a little more traffic than Saturday...because people will read it while they are goofing off at work!

Click on the fine piece of writing below to learn more about what it is to be a mother from my 3rd grade perspective.

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I'm rethinking the second to last line now as I ponder how long it takes my husband to get ready to go out!

Di

January 10, 2009

Never Say Never

The theme of my TriangleMom2Mom blog this week is how your parenting "nevers" eventually turn into "whatevers."

Here's a peek:

No food anywhere but the kitchen
No food anywhere but the kitchen and TV room
No food in your bedroom
No food in your bedroom. Really. I mean it.
If we have to call an exterminator one more time, you are paying for it!

To read more, click here.

Di

December 13, 2008

In your Facebook!

Click here to read my weekly post on TriangleMom2Mom where I weigh in on teenagers, Facebook and the influx of parents with Facebook pages!

I can hardly wait for my daughter to comment!!!

Di

December 09, 2008

Karma in the Triangle

Stuff like this just blows me away. My blog from last week about the magical bookseller ran in the paper today. It happened that my editor met a woman who had read my blog and referenced it in her blog!

So, if you get a chance, read MojoMom, and especially today's post:

Be good neighbor to your local merchants this holiday

To Amy, author of MojoMom, thank you for reading and sharing with your readers. And I just added your book, Mojo Mom, to my Christmas List. I hope whoever gets it for me gets it at Market Street Books or Quail Ridge Books. Support our local bookstores.

Di

December 06, 2008

Migrant Mother

***This post is also running on the TriangleMom2Mom site where I write each week***

As I was eating breakfast with my 12 year old son the other day, I saw a story online about the famous “Migrant Mother” photo taken by Dorothy Lange in 1936, that captured the pain and hopelessness people felt during the Great Depression.

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 There has been a lot of discussion in my family about gas prices, the stock market, lack of jobs and the far-reaching effects of the current state of our economy.

I showed my son the picture and told him that the subject of the picture, Florence Owens Thompson, had seven children and that she and her family had to live in tents or cars as they traveled from farm to farm in California picking cotton. I wanted him to understand how devastating that time was and, I guess, how fortunate we are today. I said, “Her kids didn’t even get to go to school. They worked in the fields with their Mom every day just to survive.”

His response, “Well, I guess that’s what she gets for putting all of her money in the stock market.” A fuller explanation of the Depression followed, an explanation that I hope he gets when he is taking American History in high school. I feel that as we get further and further away from historical events, they become defined by one particular thing and the details are lost. For many, the stock market crash equals the Depression just like “Let them eat cake” defines the French Revolution.

As we experience our current economic situation and I see the effects on us and people close to us, I hope that history doesn’t repeat itself, plunging us into the bleak times of the Depression. And most of all, I hope that we can tear ourselves away from the news channels, their constant stock market analysis, their sterile statistics on unemployment rates and their talk of multi-billion dollar bail-outs and remember that, like the Migrant Mother in the 1930s, there are individuals, families and children whose very survival is impacted by the economy today.

I hope we don’t see the percentage of unemployed without remembering that the people who comprise that percentage are struggling to put food on their tables and making decisions between purchasing their prescriptions and paying the electric bill. I hope that the economic good fortune that many of us have experienced for most of our lives, doesn’t make us view those who are in need as slackers who collect welfare and would be fine if they just got off the couch and got a job. I have heard this sentiment on several occasions from many different people. Call me a Liberal, a label I wear proudly, but this opinion is appalling to me!

The Migrant Mother in the picture was 32 years old when the picture was taken. Look at the picture again. Think about it.

Di

November 15, 2008

If I Could Save Time in a Ziploc

Pop on over to Triangle Mom2Mom for new strategy for making lunch preparation for the brown bag crowd easier and more efficient...with kudos to my friend Pilar who gave me all the ideas!!!

Di

September 27, 2008

Saturday's Blog

OK...it's a repeat of my recent blog about Comfort by Ann Hood, but with an added bonus of a photograph that I took that I am really proud of:

http://www.trianglemom2mom.com/content/grief

September 13, 2008

Baby Shower Faux Pas

Just when you thought that etiquette was making a comeback (my kids say "yes, Ma'am" and "yes Sir" and call my friends Miss [First Name]...hey...it's the South!) people who probably won't even write thank you notes began demanding gifts from their shower invitees.

Read about it in my weekly blog for the Raleigh News & Observer:

Baby Showers Bring Mad Glowers

And if you don't feel like clicking on that link and reading that brilliant post, you could just click on this one and see some really cute and unique gifts for Baby Showers:

Xtraordinary Gifts

And if you are just so incredibly uninspired to click THAT link, here are some pictures of the cute baby shower gifts (with thanks to Karen Anderson for permission to use the pictures:

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I would SO much rather walk into a shower with one of these adorable gifts than a package of disposable diapers (a special "gift from the heart") to be eligible for a special drawing. Sheesh!

Special thanks to Christine at What-A-Mother for inspiring me to write about this!

Di

 




September 01, 2008

Tooth Fairy - International Woman of Mystery

Read about a new approach to the tooth fairy that has kids believing long after they've given up on Santa in my weekly N&O Mom2Mom blog:

http://www.trianglemom2mom.com/content/tooth-fairy-international-woman-mystery

August 16, 2008

The Symptoms You Don't Talk About

Also posted in Mom2Mom on the Raleigh News & Observer's web site.

Pre-post-script...well after this was written, I went to the doctor and learned that I have either e.coli or salmonella.

The older you get the more constant and disgusting your various symptoms get. I have been battling a stomach flu for the past four days. No, I'm not going to regale you with the yucky physical symptoms of my ailment. But I think it's only fair to open up and share the really embarrassing aspects that affect ailing Moms.

The first thing was kind of cute. My son asked me what was wrong. Washing away my aura of invincibility, I winced and said, "My tummy is upset." My son said, "Maybe you should get it a balloon!" Of course! How brilliant....of course if someone/thing is upset...give it a balloon!!! I smiled a pale, wan smile.

The next day I felt worse. I was reclining on the couch with a comfy blankie when my son said, "Mom, what's for dinner?" I considered all of my alternatives and they all seemed to involve shedding my comfy blankie and rising from the equally comfy couch. So I said, "Here's the deal. I'll get up and make you mac & cheese...not homemade, from the blue box...OR I'll give you $20 if you fix yourself a bowl of cereal." Yes, I bribed my son in order to remain reclined in comfy blankie comfort.

The following day I felt even worse. It wasn't just about laying on the couch...it was every word, sound, telephone ring and movement grating on my every nerve. It was raining and my son and his friend were playing in the garage. Now, keep in mind that a few years back, these same two boys were skateboarding in the garage because it was raining and the child who wasn't mine (with whose parents I routinely exchange copies of our medical insurance cards) fell and broke his arm. Laying on the couch, I hear an ear-piercing scream. Somehow I find the energy within me to spring from the couch and run to the garage. I found the two boys laughing uproariously about someone wiping out and landing on his butt. I yelled, "I don't want to hear screaming like that unless someone has broken a bone!" Yes, those words crossed my lips.

Whatever semblance of good-Mom-ism you can normally muster up on a good day, slinks away little by little when you are sick. Moms don't get sick days. And in my case, I inevitably need one when my husband is on a business trip. I can't really remember ever getting sick with the rest of the family home and healthy. Thank goodness for my friends. One is not really a doctor, but he plays one on TV. And he helped me decide whether or not to go to the ER. His wife was there for comfort and encouragement. Another friend went out and got me the requisite ginger ale and saltines.

I'll feel better soon. And I'll be a better Mom too!

Di

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What I've Been Reading Lately


  • Another title from FSB Associates. Kind of out of my usual genre, so we'll see what I have to say!

  • Sent by a publisher for my review. LOVED IT!!!!!

  • Recommended by so many, but most notably, Nancy, the owner of Quail Ridge Books. Quail Ridge Books is THE place to buy books in Raleigh, NC and Nancy is the most wonderful bookstore owner ever.

  • I love Carrie Fisher and this may be her best ever.

  • When I told Amy that I needed a book to kickstart my reading habit and get me back to my couple books a week habit, this was what she recommended. It was a GREAT recommendation.
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